Social Media is an end of face-to-face conversation:
There were sweet sound old days. When people had a
great connection among their souls. And, that great connection was established
beyond the existence of a cyber-world. The proximity was the cause of socialization. But, since we, as people, have entered into a world of rapid
connectivity. We have defied that great connection among the souls which was
once the defining purpose of our existence.
Where has that connection gone? That connection is
being lost into shadowy scepticalthe emergenc of cyber-world. Now, people hardly
have any connection whatsoever, the among themselves. As, there may be hundreds of acquaintances
from other far away corners of the world. But, people hardly know their
neighbours faraway. This is the unfortunate misery! It is an era of online chatting,
online fidgeting and online dating. So, how would that connection among people
build through mutual conversation and physical connectivity?
Instead of face to face conversation, new norm is
“web strolling”. As, people find a way to seek socialization through dating
apps, social and electronic media. Thus, it has resulted in out-stretching the distance
among people, which was once deemed so highly noble and needed. On contrary,
few argue that social media has reduced the distances among people. As, entire
world is narrowed into a tiny global village, where connectivity defies the
speed of light. But, truth of the matter is this connectivity has only
increased the distances among the people. Because, now people cannot correlate
with other people feelings, as they lack empathy because of hardly having any
face to face conversation.
At one side there are few pros of social media that
people are connected in “hard times” of global pandemic. In Dickens’ words:
“these are the best of times and these are the worst of times”. Since, using
social media has revolutionized means of connectivity, which has unprecedented
benefits in revolutionizing the entire realm of education, commerce,
connectivity. But, access to social media and stretch distances among people
has also led to a crises in mental health too. Now, mental health is being seen
as a rare commodity. Because, the basic need for which human being are innately
“wired”, I mean, there needs of having a physical existence around them with whom
they could sense, touch or feel. But, lack of that existence has led to a
presence of many mental health problems too. And, during the pandemic, people
have seen this “gene coming out of the bottle”.
In fact, recent studies have showed that excessive
access to social media has led to sleep deprivation habits among youth. Since,
they spend their entire day scrolling across social media. They hardly have
time to look around, even in environments where there are people around. Still,
they would remain indulged in to their devilishly smart “smartphone devices”.
So, sleep deprivation because of overnight texting, surfing and searching
habits further contribute to worsening of physical and mental health of
individuals.
On one end social media has revolutionized the world
of commerce, but it has also brought a new form of threat to civil society in
the form of cyber-crimes. Cyber criminals use these platforms to commit frauds
with innocent citizens. So, where there is glimmer of hope, there is also
saddened shadows of devilish practices of cyber criminals, who befool innocent
people.
In conclusion, it can be said that social media has
revolutionized means of communication but it has a dark side too. As, physical
distances among people are widened. Physical health, mental well-being and existence
of that social glue is being lost in the nostalgic past. The crises around
people health cannot be ignored. And, since, people are social animals so their
needs as social animals are hardly met by the introduction of this great
revolutionary change. Therefore, it is important to
reconsider the usage of social media. Because, excessive exposure to social
media poses more harm than good.